The New Aristocracy

[aggienaut]

It has occured to me, that IF Hillary Clinton were to be elected President, that would mean that for 24 years the Presidency will have had been held by two families. And not even extended families.

Is this not rather alarming?

Comments

[dumpsterdiva.livejournal.com]

What you just described about interest rates rising is happening here now. So many are up to their necks in credit card and vehicle debt that one-half of a percent interest on their bloated mortgage will send it to the auction block.

Rents are horrific as well. If you can find a rental, that is.

Our petrol is running around $1.40 a litre. Round that to 3 litres per gallon! I know it is high in the U.S. but they must be prepared. It will go higher. Therefore all goods are going up just on that account - nearly everything gets trucked in. Again, the rise in petrol can snap an already stretched budged.

Nice that you get the payback for childcare. How much would it cost on average for a family to have one child in regular day care for a 5-day week?

[colt-4-5.livejournal.com]

I think childcare costs around 35 dollars a day. Its more expensive for babies. Rent here is bad too. Im paying 1100 for a 2 bedroom apartment. I have underground parking, 2 bathrooms and central AC so im getting my moneys worth, but a place without that isnt much cheaper. (btw I friended you)

[dumpsterdiva.livejournal.com]

I have a daughter in Uni. She never went to childcare a day in her life because of how I structured my life - I had a feed store/nursery when she was born so she came to work with me. Then when she was in school full time, I began teaching. Good hours for a mum. I still had my business but by then it had taken off and was running itself. I really was fortunate in that. And she says all the time that she was the luckiest kid in the world with her upbringing.

Rent is so bad here people pay weekly! But at least you have a decent place. Many places here in Sydney are so old and the owners just aren't keeping them up. Sad because they are so pretty.

I thank you for adding my rather eclectic and strange journal. I shall add you back.

Cheers!

[colt-4-5.livejournal.com]

My wife is a stay at home mom. Financialy it would be easier if she worked, but in the long run its going to pay off big time. We find ways to get around one income!

[dumpsterdiva.livejournal.com]

Of course it would be easier. But in the end, your kids will thank you.

My step-brother and his wife have always worked very hard. They get new cars constantly, have a home in America in a gated community. They take expensive vacations. They claim they both work hard so their kids can have the best.

Both kids have been in childcare since they were 4- and 6-weeks old. I cannot imagine having to part with my child that early.

Now their kids are over 16 and have actually been raised by strangers, with the other people's morals and values. The kids don't want to go on an expensive yearly cruise to Mexico, the Carribean or Alaska. They want to go camping or hang out with their friends at the beach or pool. My step-brother and his very nice wife don't understand it. They just shake their heads and call the kids ungrateful.

Both kids came to the ranch to stay with me one summer. They ran around like wild children with my daughter, rode horses, built dams in the river and cubbies out of left-over timber, had outdoor campfires and slept in a tent on the lawn next to the river half the nights. They got scratched and dirty but lived to tell the tale.

They loathe the cruises and having to dress for dinner. They have had no real childhood. They now seem so institutionalised.

Your kids will fare much better in life and you and your wife won't miss a thing. They won't remember what your furniture looked like but they will remember the fun they had with you both.

[colt-4-5.livejournal.com]

True that. My son has kids in his class that are being raised by live in nannies. The parents are never around. I think we're lucky that my wife enjoys staying home with the kids. They are so happy and our 5 year old is such a good big brother to our 9 month old daughter. Theres so much that kids learn from their parents that they wouldnt learn from day care providers. I know that this day and age alot of families have both parents working, but for a lot of them its because they want the million dollar house, the 2 luxery cars and the posh lifestyle. Mabey its the way they grew up and its a reciprical thing.

[dumpsterdiva.livejournal.com]

I taught second grade...trust me, it is obvious who is raising most kids today.

Your kids will be winners in the long run. And you and your wife will have all the things you desire some day. But most of all, you will have good kids.

That is much more valuable than a million dollar house that you might have to put up to bail a kid out of gaol.